Affair Confusion

Choosing Between Your Husband And Your Affair Partner

As authors Chip and Dan Heath explain in their book, Switch, “Your brain isn’t of one mind.  The…brain has two independent systems at work at all times. First, there’s what’s called the emotional side.  It’s the part of you that is instinctive, that feels pain and pleasure.  Second, there’s the rational side, also known as the reflective or conscious system.  It’s the part of you that deliberates and analyzes and looks into the future. Read More

Why Women Can’t Gain Clarity During An Affair

If you’re like most women during an affair, you’re constantly THINKING – and you believe that eventually, all of your THINKING will lead to clarity about whether you want to stay married or get divorced. Unfortunately, that’s not what actually happens. You see, there are two main obstacles that prevent women from gaining clarity during an affair. Read More