Affair Stress... Learn How Your Wife’s Affair is Affecting Your Brain... Why You 'Literally' Can't Think Straight Now That You've Discovered Your Wife Is Having An Affair.
Stress Can Result In A Drain of More Than 70 Percent Of The Frontal Lobes
As Dawson Church explains in his book, Mind to Matter, “When our consciousness is disrupted by stress…We’re afflicted by “brain fog,”…When we’re upset…we’re easily confused, and our cognitive abilities plummet…We are unable to be objective and consider a problem realistically. Stress can result in a drain of more than 70 percent of the frontal lobes, the cognitive centers of the brain.”
Church also writes, “The parts of the brain tasked with emotional regulation are also the ones that handle working memory…Working memory involves awareness, enabling you to remain focused,,,and to sort relevant from irrelevant information. When your emotions are disturbed, those parts of the brain go offline…You then make poor decisions.”
Unfortunately, most of us were never taught how to regulate our emotions, (at least, not in ways that are healthy and effective). As a result, many of us we live our lives at the mercy of external circumstances. Oftentimes, without even knowing how vulnerable we are until a major life crisis hits. That’s why the first step for men who are serious about wanting to save their marriages is to learn effective stress reduction techniques to stabilize and regulate their emotions; because the alternative is to continue spiraling down through the stages. You have the power to change the trajectory of your relationship. But only if you’re willing to take the right steps, in the right order.
Do An Honest Assessment. Do You Feel Out Of Control?
Men often know what they need to do, but they have difficulty remaining consistent in their efforts because their emotions are constantly getting triggered by their wives’ behavior. If you’re moving through the stages, it’s crucial that you do an honest assessment to determine whether you can manage your anxiety and get your emotions under control on your own. If you’re feeling out of control and your behavior has become compulsive—don’t put off getting the help you need. Contact Ashley to learn more about scheduling a consultation.
If you haven’t read the Women’s Infidelity books, that’s where you need to start. You’ll find out exactly what your wife is thinking and feeling – so you can stop analyzing—and stop operating from a mindset that leads to divorce.
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Women’s Infidelity: Living In Limbo
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