Why Women Separate: How Women Use Separation As A Tool To Cheat
When a woman starts talking about separating from her husband, you can pretty much guarantee that she’s seeing someone, or that she has a ‘particular’ someone in mind that she wants to start seeing. Since females use faithfulness as a selling tool in acquiring a new mate, (males use money and status, but that’s changing) they must always disguise the fact that they’re ‘willing’ to cheat on their current partner.
So that’s why separation plays such an important role for women…
So that’s why separation plays such an important role for women who are cheating on their husbands (or who are planning to cheat on their husbands). Separation not only allows women the time and freedom to cheat; but it’s also a tool that married women use to ‘appear’ as though they’re not willing to cheat on their husbands. In fact, it’s not uncommon for women to start hinting about not being happy within days of becoming attracted to a new man. This is simply how women begin planting the seeds to set a separation in motion.
Men often have a hard time understanding women…
Men often have a hard time understanding women until they understand the female version of pursue and discard which I explain in Women’s Infidelity. To summarize, the female version of pursue and discard, can best be understood by men this way: females ‘generally’ feel the same way after getting a male to commitment, that males ‘generally’ feel after getting a female into bed. Males often lose interest in females after getting them into bed; because the chase is over and the prize has been won. It’s the same for females after they get males to commit. Females often lose interest in males because the chase is over and the prize has been won.
Getting a male ‘into a commitment’ requires ‘loyalty’ or, at least, the ‘appearance’ of loyalty. This is one of the main reasons women feel as though they have to separate when they cheat. Married women use separation as a tool to disguise the fact that they’re cheating and/or willing to cheat on their husbands; because, in terms of mating, a lot of the passion and excitement for women comes from the challenge of getting a new male to commit. In much the same way that a lot of the passion and excitement for men comes from the challenge of getting a new female into bed.
If you haven’t read the Women’s Infidelity books, that’s where you need to start. In my books, you’ll learn why women prefer separation over divorce.
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