About Michelle Langley

Hi, I’m Michelle Langley. I’m a personal and professional development coach who specializes in helping men and women navigate the waters of infidelity and marital limbo.  This certainly wasn’t the career path I had pictured for myself.  But our lives can take unexpected turns, and sometimes those turns can change our lives in ways that we could have never imagined.

I’ve Been Immersed In Women’s Infidelity Issues For Almost Twenty Years.

I didn’t begin my research into the subject of female infidelity to write a book.  I began researching the subject for personal reasons. At the time, I was lost, confused and in tremendous pain. Back then, I had no way of knowing that I was following a script — a script that like so many women — I didn’t even know existed.

A Little About My Story.

Shortly after my 27th birthday, I began to feel very different. I had been happily married for 4 years and then, suddenly out of nowhere, I began feeling bored and unhappy. In an attempt to figure out what was causing my unhappiness, I looked for answers in books, tried to talk to my mother and eventually went to see a psychologist. All of the information I received attributed the way I was feeling to my husband, and similar to the majority of women, I began to view my husband as the culprit too.

Currently, Women Are Initiating 70 – 75% Of All Divorces.

Later, through my own research, I discovered that what I was experiencing was actually quite normal. In fact, I learned that women are the most likely to divorce in their late twenties and thirties after an average of 4 years of marriage. During this time, it’s quite common for women to experience a pre-midlife crisis, which is similar to the male midlife crisis, only with an important difference – a difference that can actually make women more likely to cheat than men.

People often ask me why I wrote Women’s infidelity. I wrote Women’s infidelity for a couple reasons. First, I was acutely aware of how painful and confusing it was to live in limbo, because I lived in limbo for several years. So I knew how little information there was available to help people through this confusing time in their lives. Second, I believed I might have made different decisions had I known the information in my books, and I suspected this might be the case for other people, too. So it was (and still is) my sincerest hope that the information in my books helps people to make informed decisions which leave them with as few regrets as possible.


— Michelle Langley