Stop Your Wife's Affair

How To Stop Your Wife’s Affair The #1 Rule Men Must Follow

If you’re trying to change your wife’s mind, you have to stop –– because trying to change your wife’s mind (about anything) is the single most counter-productive behavior you can engage in, if you want to save your marriage. I know it’s hard to accept. And I know that what I’m about to say may sound harsh. But if you don’t understand this piece to the puzzle, the most likely outcome to your situation is divorce. The fact is women often refuse to give up their affairs, and eventually end up divorcing their husbands, simply because their husbands won’t stop trying to change their minds. (Note: This includes trying to influence your wife in small, subtle, ways, too)… Read More

How To Stop Your Wife’s Affair By Shifting Your Focus Of Attention

Are you serious about saving your marriage? If you are, then you must understand that your wife’s feelings for the other man are contingent upon your ‘resistance’ to what’s happening. In other words, the husband is the obstacle that fuels the wife’s desire for the other man – and this is precisely why women give their husbands signs of hope when they suspect their husbands are letting go; it’s because women can’t enjoy their affairs––unless they feel they have their husbands locked down, so to speak. Simply put, women need to know that their husbands are in pain and are waiting for them to make up their minds…Read More

How To Stop Fueling Your Wife’s Affair —> No More Rewarding Your Wife For Cheating

As Debbie Ford tells us in her book, The Right Questions, “It’s human nature to opt for the quick fix, preferring to suffer the consequences of our behavior . . . later. Our desires in the moment win out over our commitments for the future. Choices made in the heat of the moment, without a thought for their consequences, are choices based on instant gratification…Instant gratification ensures that we will travel in the same vicious circles again and again.” If you’re like most men who are moving through the stages, you probably don’t want to accept that letting go is the solution to saving your marriage, because it’s the one thing you don’t FEEL like doing. Unfortunately, this is how men get stuck traveling in the same vicious circles again and again––they get stuck when they cave in to the temptation to… Read More

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Women’s Infidelity: Living In Limbo

Learn The REAL Reasons Women Cheat

Why women lose sexual desire for their husbands
Why women are more likely than men to become addicted to affair sex
Why marriage and fidelity can actually be MORE difficult for women than it is for men
Why women have such a hard time ending and getting over their affairs 
Why women overwhelmingly initiate the majority of all divorces – even when they’re married to good men
Why and how men unknowingly make the problem worse by doing the opposite of what they need to do to save their marriages

Women’s Infidelity II: Breaking Out Of Limbo

Learn How To Sort Through Your Feelings:

How to know if your feelings for the other man are real
• How to understand your feelings for your husband – what it really means when you say, “I love him, but I’m not “in” love with him
How to know if there’s a possibility for a future with the other man
• How to stop your circular thinking
How to end your confusion and move forward in 7 clearly defined steps
Men: Learn how women process infidelity. Find out exactly what your wife is thinking and feeling