Getting Over An Affair

How To Cope With The Pain And Emptiness Of Affair Withdrawal

If you’ve recently ended an affair, or if you’re trying to end an affair, then you know the pain and emptiness of affair withdrawal. What you’re feeling is normal, and the feelings you’re experiencing are very real. But it’s important that you don’t misinterpret the thoughts and feelings that you’re experiencing during this time. An affair is often a wake-up call. Sometimes it can be a wake-up call to what’s happening (or not happening) in our primary relationship. But mostly, it’s just a wake-up call; a call for us to stop living on auto-pilot and to begin growing and developing ourselves into more whole and complete individuals. In other words, an affair can be a catalyst that moves us into a new and higher level of operating and ‘being’ in the world. time. Read More

How To Deal With Doubts After Ending An Affair

“I’m still thinking about Dave every day. It’s been a month since our affair ended. And I just can’t seem to stop thinking about him. I feel like I may have made a mistake. I don’t know what to do. It doesn’t seem normal for me to still be feeling this way.”

That’s how my client Heather, (not her real name) described her situation during our first session together. If you’re like Heather, then you’re unsure about what to expect after an affair ends. The article below can help prepare you for the lingering feelings you can expect and also give you better a idea of how long it actually takes to get over an affair. Read More

How To Forgive Yourself For Cheating

Relationships often end as a result of infidelity. However, it’s not necessarily because the spouse found out and couldn’t forgive the behavior; it’s often because the person who cheated couldn’t forgive themselves. If you’re trying to come to terms with cheating on your husband, then you need to start viewing cheating for what it is — a bad choice. It’s nothing more and nothing less…. The old adage, “once a cheater, always a cheater” is nothing more than a judgment which is intended to deter people from cheating in the first place.  So don’t buy into this belief about yourself.  Who you are today is not who you were yesterday…  Read More

 

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Women’s Infidelity: Living In Limbo

Learn The REAL Reasons Women Cheat

• Why women lose sexual desire for their husbands
• Why women are more likely than men to become addicted to affair sex
• Why marriage and fidelity can actually be MORE difficult for women than it is for men
• Why women have such a hard time getting over their affairs emotionally and psychologically
• Why women overwhelmingly initiate the majority of all divorces – even when they’re married to good men
• Why and how men unknowingly make the problem worse by doing the opposite of what they need to do to save their marriages