“Betrayed Husband… I know You’re Confused And You Don’t Know What To Do. But Don’t Panic.
Learn How To Take The Right Steps In The Right Order To Save Your Marriage.”

Master 3 Critical Moments To Save Your Marriage

There’s a lot of false and conflicting information out there about what you should and shouldn’t do after discovering your wife’s affair. So it can be hard to know what might work and what might actually make things worse. Maybe you’ve already tried multiple things, and so far there’s been no change. Or, maybe your situation has already gone from bad to worse. But despite how bad things have gotten, you still keep holding out hope—hope that the next bit of information you receive—may hold the key to getting your wife to:

End Her Affair —> Reaffirm Her Commitment —> And Fall Back In Love With You

You’re right to believe that there are certain things you can do to dramatically increase your chances of saving your marriage. But first, you have to untangle the issue of not knowing what to do from the issue of not being able to do what you need to do—because for a lot of men, the real issue isn’t that they don’t know what to do. The real issue for a lot of men after their wives cheat is —> they can’t do what they need to doyet.

For example, I’m sure you’ve read many times now that you need to let go completely in order to save your marriage. But if you’re like a lot of men after their wives cheat — you can’t do it — because you’re too destabilized and you’re not functioning well enough yet. So you keep scouring the internet looking for alternatives to the solution —> instead of getting the help you need to take the first necessary step to saving your marriage.

So if you’re like a lot of men you’re taking a step out of order. Instead of consuming infidelity and marriage-saving advice, what most men really need is to get help for managing their anxiety (so they can actually follow the marriage saving advice they receive). As Andrew Marshall states in his book, My Wife Doesn’t Love Me Anymore, “…more relationships break down at this point because of the husband’s panic than the wife’s determination to leave.”

You Have Time To Save Your Marriage… So Don’t Panic

If you’ve tried to make things better between you and your wife, then you may have already noticed that you just can’t seem to make any consistent progress. Instead, you just keep taking one step forward, and then, taking a step or two back. This is happening because you’re stuck in a loop; and you’re stuck in a loop because there are 3 critical points in your wife’s decision-making process that keep repeating over and over again. If these critical points repeat too many times without being handled correctly —> your marriage endsand there’s no turning back.

The fate of your marriage will be determined by how you handle the following 3 crisis points:

  • The discovery of the affair.
  • The discovery of continued contact with the affair partner, or any other “overt” sign from your wife which indicates that she’s no longer committed to the marriage. Note: The discovery of continued contact with the affair partner usually happens multiple times. In addition, women often “signal” their lack of commitment to their husbands and marriages in a variety of ways too; and they send these signals dozens and dozens of times to their husbands before the marriage ends.
  • The separation and/or divorce talk. The subject of separation and/or divorce is typically brought up several times before the marriage ends.

As you can see, you have many opportunities to “course-correct”. In fact, it usually takes 12-24 months for a marriage of at least four years or more to reach the snap point—the point where there’s no turning back—and that’s “after” the affair is discovered. But there is no way of knowing ahead of time, which critical point will be the last to end the marriage. So you have to stop putting off getting your emotions under control —> because mastering your emotions is the key to mastering the critical moments. Master 3 “critical” moments and create the outcome you want.

Do An Honest Assessment. How Out Of Control Do You Feel?

Do an honest assessment to determine whether you believe you can manage your fear and anxiety on your own. If you’re feeling out of control, and your behavior has become compulsive—don’t put off getting the support and step-by-step direction you need to save your marriage. Contact Ashley to learn more about scheduling a consultation.

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Why women lose sexual desire for their husbands
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Why women have such a hard time ending and getting over their affairs
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How to know if your feelings for the other man are real
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