How To Cope With Your Wife’s Affair

How To Cope With The Emotional Pain And Stress From Your Wife’s Affair.

Find out why you ‘literally’ can’t think straight since discovering your wife cheated… As Dawson Church explains in his book, Mind to Matter, “When our consciousness is disrupted by stress…We’re afflicted by “brain fog,”…When we’re upset…we’re easily confused, and our cognitive abilities plummet…We are unable to be objective and consider a problem realistically. Stress can result in a drain of more than 70 percent of the frontal lobes, the cognitive centers of the brain.Church also writes, “The parts of the brain tasked with emotional regulation are also the ones that handle working memory…Working memory involves awareness, enabling you to remain focused,,,and to sort relevant from irrelevant information. When your emotions are disturbed, those parts of the brain go offline…You then make poor decisions.”

Unfortunately, most of us were never taught how to regulate our emotions, (at least, not in ways that are healthy and effective). As a result, many of us live our lives at the mercy of external circumstances. Oftentimes, without even knowing how vulnerable we are until a major life crisis hits. That’s why if you’re serious about saving your marriage, you’re going to have to learn an effective stress reduction technique to stabilize and regulate your emotions; because the alternative is to continue to spiral down through the stages. You have the power to change the trajectory of your relationship. But only if.. Read More

 

How To Cope With Unwanted Thoughts And Images After Your Wife Cheats

In his book, The Miracle Morning, Hal Elrod writes, “Every single one of us has an internal dialogue that runs through our heads, almost non-stop. Most of it is unconscious, that is, we don’t consciously choose the dialogue. Instead we allow our past experiences–both good and bad–to replay over and over again.Not only is this completely normal, it is one of the most important processes for each of us to learn and master. Yet, very few people take responsibility for actively choosing to think positive, proactive thoughts that will add value to their lives.”

Prior to discovering your wife’s affair, you probably didn’t pay much attention to the incessant stream of thoughts that run through your head. But I’m sure that’s not the case anymore. If you’re like most men after their wives cheat, your mind has become your worst enemy. And you’re literally being tormented by the thoughts and pictures in your head from the time you wake up until the time you go to bed. And what’s worse — you can’t even shut it off when you sleep, because — you can’t sleep….Read More

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Women’s Infidelity: Living In Limbo

Learn The REAL Reasons Women Cheat

Why women lose sexual desire for their husbands
Why women are more likely than men to become addicted to affair sex
Why marriage and fidelity can actually be MORE difficult for women than it is for men
Why women have such a hard time getting over their affairs emotionally and psychologically
Why women overwhelmingly initiate the majority of all divorces – even when they’re married to good men
Why and how men unknowingly make the problem worse by doing the opposite of what they need to do to save their marriages

Women’s Infidelity II: Breaking Out Of Limbo

Learn How To Sort Through Your Feelings:

How to know if your feelings for the other man are real
How to understand your feelings for your husband – what it really means when you say, “I love him, but I’m not “in” love with him
How to know if there’s a possibility for a future with the other man
• How to stop your circular thinking
How to end your confusion and move forward in 7 clearly defined steps
Men: This book is for you, too. In this book you’ll learn how women process infidelity. Find out exactly what your wife is thinking, feeling and planning

 

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