Affair Advice For Men

How Your Wife’s Affair Is Affecting Your Brain

As Dawson Church explains in his book, Mind to Matter, “When our consciousness is disrupted by stress…We’re afflicted by “brain fog,”…When we’re upset…we’re easily confused, and our cognitive abilities plummet…We are unable to be objective and consider a problem realistically. Stress can result in a drain of more than 70 percent of the frontal lobes, the cognitive centers of the brain.” Read More

The “Male” Stages: Four Stages Men Move Through After Discovering Their Wives Affair

Just as women move through stages (before and after cheating on their husbands), men also move through very four separate stages after discovering their wives’ affair. In fact, after many years of talking with men, I’ve found that men who save their marriages are able to stop themselves from spiraling down. As you will learn from reading the stages, it’s quite common for men who are unable to save their marriages to live in limbo for months, and sometimes years, prior to getting divorced; while their wives continue to cheat and have affairs. Read More

Are You Guilty Of Rewarding Your Wife For Cheating?

As Debbie Ford tells us in her book, The Right Questions, “It’s human nature to opt for the quick fix, preferring to suffer the consequences of our behavior . . . later. Our desires in the moment win out over our commitments for the future. Choices made in the heat of the moment, without a thought for their consequences, are choices based on instant gratification…Instant gratification ensures that we will travel in the same vicious circles again and again.”
If you’re like most men who are moving through the stages, you probably don’t…Read More

Stop Your Wife’s Affair In An Instant

Men who are moving through the stages must understand that the intensity of their wives’ feelings is contingent upon ‘their’ resistance. The husband is the obstacle that’s fueling the wife’s desire for the other man. This is why women give their husbands signs of hope when they suspect that their husbands are letting go; it’s because women can’t enjoy their affairs unless they feel they have their husbands locked down. Women need to know that their husbands are scared and waiting for them in the wings; otherwise they begin to feel anxious and off balance (like men who are moving through the stages). In other words, women need to know that their husbands are participating in the affair triangle … Read More

The Real Reason We’re So Devastated By Infidelity And Divorce

Unfortunately, most of us aren’t prepared for the pain of infidelity and divorce, even though most of us are touched by one or both of these painful life experiences. The reason we’re not prepared is primarily due to the fact that most of us didn’t know prior to getting married how attached we were going to become to our spouse. For example, did you know prior to getting married that you were going to attach to your spouse in the same way that a child attaches to a parent? Read More

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