Wife Is Having An Affair - Affair Advice For Men

How Your Wife’s Affair Is Affecting Your Brain

As Dawson Church explains in his book, Mind to Matter, “When our consciousness is disrupted by stress…We’re afflicted by “brain fog,”…When we’re upset…we’re easily confused, and our cognitive abilities plummet…We are unable to be objective and consider a problem realistically. Stress can result in a drain of more than 70 percent of the frontal lobes, the cognitive centers of the brain.” Read More

Are You Guilty of Rewarding Your Wife For Cheating?

As Debbie Ford tells us in her book, The Right Questions, “It’s human nature to opt for the quick fix, preferring to suffer the consequences of our behavior . . . later. Our desires in the moment win out over our commitments for the future. Choices made in the heat of the moment, without a thought for their consequences, are choices based on instant gratification…Instant gratification ensures that we will travel in the same vicious circles again and again.” If you’re like most men who are moving through the stages, you probably don’t…Read More

How To Stop Your Wife’s Affair

Men who are moving through the stages must understand that the intensity of their wives’ feelings is contingent upon ‘their’ resistance. The husband is the obstacle that’s fueling the wife’s desire for the other man. This is why women give their husbands signs of hope when they suspect that their husbands are letting go; it’s because women can’t enjoy their affairs unless they feel they have their husbands locked down. Women need to know that their husbands are scared and waiting for them in the wings; otherwise they begin to feel anxious and off balance (like men who are moving through the stages). In other words, women need to know that their husbands are participating in the affair triangle … Read More

The “Male” Stages

Are you caught in the downward spiral? Just as women move through stages, (before and after cheating on their husbands), men also move through four distinct stages after discovering their wives’ affair. As you will learn from reading the stages below, it’s quite common for men who are unable to save their marriages to live in limbo for months, and sometimes years, prior to getting divorced; while their wives continue to cheat and have affairs. Read More